mandag den 19. juli 2010

Plus at jeg sparer karma op i tilfælde af, at mit barn har kolik.

Når jeg er vejleder, plejer jeg at snakke med mine praktikanter om, at der sjældent er meget hjælp at hente hos folk, der er sure på dig, forstået på den måde, at det godt kan betale sig at bede pænt om det, man har brug for – også når man er RØVpresset – fordi sandsynligheden for at få det, stiger proportionalt med høflighed og forståelse for den andens situation. En stresset lærer, der skal nå at formidle et pensum på et semester, vil have mere lyst til at afbryde sin undervisning, så tolken kan få sin pause, hvis man beder pænt om den, end hvis man med det samme (fordi man er så træt, at hjernen er ved at koge over, og armene føles som sandsække) kommer til at hvisle noget om arbejdstidsregler og tolkens krav på 10 minutters pause for hver time, der skal tolkes.

Det kan jeg sagtens sige, for jeg har været tolk i 10.000 år, og har efterhånden cement i stedet for hud, men jeg synes stadig, at princippet holder - også i andre sammenhænge.

Eksempelvis har jeg på meget kort tid fået både nye over- og underboer, som virker søde, høflige og meget, meget unge. På vi-er-lige-flyttet-hjemmefra-måden.

Underboerne, som er 3 unge piger, har kastet deres kærlighed på ejendommens baggård, hvor der står bord og stole til fri afbenyttelse, og de sidste mange uger har de fået mange aftener og nætter til at gå med at sidde og drikke vin og ryge en uhyrlig mængde smøger LIGE nedenfor min altan. Og med ’lige nedenfor’ mener jeg virkelig lige nedenfor. Jeg bor i stuen, og har altanen i mit soveværelse, så hvis jeg tager et skridt ud over gelænderet, står jeg på det pågældende bord. Det har en lille smule føltes som at have dem på hyttetur i min seng. Men i stedet for at tabe besindelsen og vræle af dem, da jeg for 6. nat i streg lå på et lydtæppe af gymnasiebrandert, tog jeg fat på dem den efterfølgende eftermiddag og spurgte, om vi kunne finde en løsning, så de følte, at de kunne bruge gården til det, de skulle, og så jeg stadig kunne sove. Det udviklede sig til en lang snak om studier, min graviditet og sommeraftener, og jeg har nu 2 kommende pædagogstuderende og en kommende jordemoderstuderende, der står og tripper for at få lov at være barnepiger.

I lørdags holdt mine to, nye overboer fest det meste af natten, og jeg holdt ud helt til kl. 2.30, før jeg gik ud på altanen, og høfligt råbte, om det var muligt at dæmpe den del af festen, der foregik på altanen, bare lidt? I dag ringede det på døren, og udenfor stod to skamfulde ungmøer, der bare gerne ville sige undskyld. De havde snakket med pigerne i kælderen, og havde hørt, at jeg var gravid, og de så overordentligt lettede ud, da jeg spurgte, om vi ikke bare kunne aftale, at hvis de larmer alt for meget, så siger jeg til, og så lover de til gengæld ikke at synes, at jeg er den sure, gamle underbo.

I rest my case. Princippet holder stadig. Man HAR bare mere lyst til at tage hensyn til folk, man kan lide, end folk, der er nogle sure spassere.

15 kommentarer:

  1. Men Linda...hvad gør man så når man har spurgt pænt 8000 gange og underboen stadig holder ugentlige hverdagsfester? Skal jeg lyve mig gravid...hehe. Hjælp!!

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  2. Du er dygtig. Og du har ret! Det er hele to gode ting.

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  3. So very true.. Nogen gange føler man sig næsten små-manipulerende, fordi man kan komme så uendeligt langt med et smil og beskeden formuleret på en pæn måde.. :)

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  4. Du er sgu da den alt for fantastiske nabo, dame! Fedt.

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  5. Jaaaah, og så skal du jo heller ikke have dårlig samvittighed, hvis din kommende mini har lyst til at græde højlydt i gården, så det giver genlyd (det gør det nemlig i de gårde, har selv boet der), altimens du traver frem og tilbage i gården med barnevognen i håb om at han/hun falder i søvn på et tidspunkt ;-)

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  6. Det er friggin allstar det der!

    Man kommer så meget længere med forståelse og åbenhed.

    Aw jeg får lyst til at kramme dig!

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  7. så zen ku´ jeg sgu ikk være kl 02.30!!
    - Mette

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  8. Marie: Hmmm... Godt spørgsmål:/ Tænker at den med at fake en graviditet godt kan gå hen og give bagslag på et tidspunkt... ER det måske tid til at bringe drengene i blåt i spil?

    Katrine: Næsten helt Kinder-agtigt:)

    Cecilie: Det er fuldstændig rigtigt. Men når jeg får den tanke, så skynder jeg mig at blive enig med mig selv om, at det fandme er en syg verden, hvis det at opføre sig ordenligt er blevet det samme som at manipulere. Siger du ikke også det?

    lbs: Jeg prøver, jeg prøver:)

    Ano: - og deraf overskriften på posten...

    Mof: Tror du, at Johnson måske vil have mig med næste gang så?

    Mette: Er faktisk også MEGET stolt!

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  9. ENIG! For sewan, det' også kun et mili-sekund, at jeg lige får tænkt "manipulation?" - og så smiler jeg lidt mere ægte og komplimenterer dem lidt mere.. At opføre sig ordentligt er the way to rock! ;)

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